Along Came Molly
Named for the patron saint of field artillery, Molly Pitcher came to us
in May of 2004, a few months after I found gainful employment – or at least the
next best thing – at a glass and door company in Tacoma, WA. Well, technically in Tacoma, being an
international company, they were located in the Port of Tacoma, which was five
minutes from my house, the commute being the best thing about the job.
Working customer service for a
less-than-excellent wage while being screamed at by end-users and home store
employees due to company policies that involved not having a quality product,
not having that product on time and lying about why we didn’t have that product
on time was not the best time of my life or a terrific use of my Master’s
Degree in Folklore. I happen to think teaching or researching or doing museum or
archival work or any number of other things would be a great use of my MA, but
the trick with a Folklore degree is convincing other people of that. And there is where I suck.
And did I mention the number of
liberal arts degrees per square foot in WA?
Only once? Well, there are
many. So, despite the fact that I can
actually entrance a classroom, make the middle ages interesting by telling the
Legend of the Wandering Jew, the Wild Hunt, and Pope Joan and tying those to
present events, actually convincing
people who don’t know me that I’d be good it is something else entirely. I saw on the net today that someone’s started
submitting his resume as giant candy bar wrappers. Maybe I should have done mine on vellum.
Not that I could afford
vellum. Or parchment. Or groceries, because I kept putting things
like car repairs, medical bills, books, books, books, DVDs, food, knick knacks
and other necessities on credit cards.
Ok, I bought a lot of crap
that I couldn’t really justify and am still paying for and will be paying for
into my next life on credit cards because all of my income was going to pay off
the credit cards because I kept having jobs that didn’t pay and didn’t have
health insurance and putting medical bills and car repairs – the advantage to
driving an ’89 Toyota is that nobody wants to steal it, the disadvantage is
that it’s an ’89 Toyota – on my credit cards.[1]
Anywho, the point of the crappy
job was that it did offer health
insurance and a modicum of paid vacation and holidays and meant that I could
devote myself to finding a job I wanted
rather than just finding any job, which is what my time since arriving in WA had
been spent doing. Well, that and fixing
holes in the fence, making sure Loki didn’t caryr the dead squirrel she found
in the yard into the house and with Laurel trying to learn the ins and outs of
our new locale.
We also got a name for ourselves
with the neighbours. We walked Loki most
nights and she retained her obstreperous habits around other dogs in the land
of cul-de-sacs[2]
but they got used to that. What led to
the smiling and waving from neighbours and random drivers was Ichabod. Who generally insisted on walking with
us. Either a little ahead or a little
behind, but noticeably with. Mallory often came too. I guess there are worse things to be known
for.
Like not actually being able to
keep the dogs behind the six-foot wooden fence.
Laurel has always been much better at people and work than I. Skill, native talent, whatever, she was
settling in and on the fast-track to running half of Western State
Hospital. Not on the fast-track to
making anywhere close to the money she should be for what she does and how well
she does it, but you can’t have everything.
One of the things she’s good at
is making friends. One of the friends is
the kind of person I hate: Taking a
Ph.D. while working full time and
doing well at both as in addition keeping her marriage to an active-duty
serviceman going. The longest
relationship I’ve ever had with a person of the opposite sex has only lasted
about six months and, willingly or not, I shed friendships like reptiles do
skin. People who can manage all of these
things make me sick.
The one thing this friend
couldn’t handle while doing everything she was doing and having a husband who
was only around part-time was the dog he got at the pound to keep her
company.
Unfortunately for my self-image,
this speaks more to her being sane than it does to a lack of ability. She’s
probably part Italian Greyhound, part blonde Labrador. With all the energy of both. Or several.
Laurel’s friend had what
amounted to two full-time jobs and an unfenced yard. She was going to have to take the dog back to
the pound. We couldn’t stand that.
When we met Molly she was six
months old. I honestly can’t remember if
I came home to the sight of a savaged couch and cat bed with stuffing in three
dimensions before she knocked me down
the stairs, and then repeated the action running up to see why I was cursing
and crying – 9 years later my coccyx still hurts at times -- or after. I think we got a note from Mallory
threatening to move out if we brought anything else home.
Molly came into our lives
knowing how to sit, lie down, shake and ask to go outside. She rapidly learned how, in addition to
eating the couch, to open the sliding glass door in from the back yard, track
mud across the dining room, living room, up the stairs, into a bedroom, leap on
top of whomever she was stalking and run back the way she’d come, cleaning off
the last of the mud as she went.
Laurel rapidly learned that it
was cheaper to buy a carpet shampooer than to keep renting one. And the effect was only temporary regardless.
We also learned that a six-foot
high fence didn’t actually pose a challenge.
And that Loki was perfectly capable of clawing her way through a fence
she couldn’t go over.
We came home one night to
discover that our next door neighbour had not only broken into our backyard to
get the dogs back in – Molly could not be caught, but would follow Loki who
knew a friendly guy when she saw one – but had fixed the board Loki had
“removed” to allow them egress. She
never did this kind of thing before Molly came along.
The really fun night was the one
that had me kneeling in the dark nailing a stop-gap with scrap wood over a big
hole next to the garage[3]
and Laurel driving around the area where she ran the dogs – I will try to
comment on her insanity as little as possible – calling for them. Molly reappeared while I was nailing and
swearing and Laurel found Loki en route so all ended well.
And I had time on my ½ hour
lunch break to come home and make sure the dogs were still in the yard. Or discover that we had to buy more lattice to
nail up in yet another place Molly had found to get over the fence.
We usually found out she’d gone
over because she’d meet me in the driveway when I got home, so she wasn’t
running off. She just seemed to enjoy
having control over her environment.
Or giving us heartattacks.
By the time I moved out of the
house in 2011, better than ¾ of the ½ acre of fencing was topped up by
lattice. Including the section that went
into the neighbour’s yard. The nice man
who repaired our fence died and another nice man moved into. How nice I learned when he told me a
story.
Dennis had no pets, but was very
friendly to all of ours. Including not
getting upset at Ichabod’s fondness for his flower garden. It was apparently balanced by watching a cat
do the standard cat thing of walking a few feet and falling over. Then rolling around on his back in the wet
grass after a rain. However, the story
was not about my cat and went something like this:
“I kept finding dog crap in my
yard.” Which was fenced on all sides, so
this was kind of a surprise. “I’d had my
daughter’s dog over so I thought maybe I just hadn’t got everything cleaned up,
but it kept showing up. Then one day I
looked out my back door and there was Molly trotting across my yard. She saw me, gave me this look like ‘What are
you doing here?’ and jumped over the fence back into your yard.”
That’s not the kind of thing you
notice happening unless you see it. I
just thought we were having really efficient walks. When I left her in the house while I went to
buy more lattice, she jumped into the kitchen sink and took down the blinds at
that window. By this time she was five
and we’d thought she would be settling down.
[1] Did I mention that almost
everyone I know who’s bought a new house has had the heater go out the first
time they turned it on in the winter? At
least once one of the repair guys showed us how to work the gas fireplace we
could get the house into the low 60s (and Mallory discovered the altar at which
she worshipped).
[2] The best way to describe the
area of Spanaway, WA that we lived in was as a descending spiral of
cul-de-sacs. Which is even more
confusing than it sounds: To get there from one direction you turned right off
a mainish street. And turned right. And turned right. And turned right. And, if memory serves, turned right once or
twice more. You had to turn right on the
2nd 192nd, not the first.
And there were people just down the road from us who shared fences with
people that they would have actually had to go a mile around to knock on their
front door. Our yard backed on a private road that was infested with teenagers
who rode up and down and up and down and up and down and up and.... in later
years it went on so much that dogs actually stopped barking. Lovely house though, big yard if you want to
make an offer.
[3] Speaking from long experience,
this is probably the hardest place to nail up boards. Especially in the dark. Beneath the outside light that refused to
stay on for any length of time no matter the age of the bulb.